Today’s Tough Love:
When someone shows you who they are committed to being, believe them…and set boundaries accordingly.
I believe in the depths of my soul that anyone can change, if they want it badly enough.
I also know there were times in my life when I believed more in someone’s ability to change than they did, and so I kept tolerating their behavior because of that deep belief in the power of change…and it took me time to realize this “tough love truth”.
Because here’s the distinction:
You can believe they can change, with every fiber of your being.
But you can’t change for them.
And as long as they’re showing you who they continue to be committed to being?
Believe them.
And set boundaries like a motherf*cker.
Have Courage and Sparkle On 💖
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