Today’s Tough Love:
If you slice your hand tonight while you’re making dinner…and it’s a pretty deep cut…
Do you wake up tomorrow morning, look at that cut, get f*cking angry that it hasn’t healed overnight and start screaming at it in frustration?
Or are you aware that a physical cut takes time to heal?
Oh? So you say it’d be “crazy” to wake up and yell at a wound that didn’t heal overnight?
And yet…
Here you are, trying to force your emotional healing to happen “overnight”…
Here you are, upset with yourself that you didn’t change that (deeply ingrained) behavior “overnight”…
Here you are, beating yourself up because you caught yourself in an old pattern…
Isn’t that interesting…
Have Courage and Sparkle On 💖
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